Hi Phillip,
I'm Jewel with Kingston Technical Support and would like to offer our assistance. Per ASUS's website, the M5A97 R2.0 supports up to DDR3 1333MHz stable with any processor and can support up to 2133MHz overclocking. Since processors have the memory controller built-in the issue could be the supported memory speeds of the CPU, after crashing most BIOS will revert to defaults for stability which is why it would revert to the 1333MHz default speed. Per AMD's wesite, the FX8350 supports up to 1866MHz speed with a special note "1866 supported with 1 DPC (DIMM per Channel) in single memory slot motherboard designs". This means that the two memory modules would need to be installed in slot A1 and A2 or B1 and B2 to support that speed, this would be 1 DPC configuration. Also the easiest way to set up the overclocking speed on the HyperX Memory would be to select the memory profiles in the BIOS, if your BIOS does not have this capability than the timings would have to be set manually. For the 1866MHz speed the recommended timings are 9-11-9 @ 1.65V. If you need any further assistance, please call us at 1-800-435-0640 (USA and Canada only) M - F 6am - 6pm PT and I or another available Technician will assist you. Please be sure to have the part in question on hand when you call.
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