get a fx8320. its just an underclocked 8350, and will overclock up to those levels and performance.
4+1 is the phase power design of the motherboard. 4+1 means you have 4 mosfets designated to the cpu power regulation and 1 for ram and hypertransport. Generally in AMD motherboards you'll see 4+1 phase setups advised for 95W tdp motherboards at the most. it's really not very robust, and rarely has any sort of heatsink design for the mosfets (its basically useful for stock use, cheap, for business use)
4+2 would mean there is 4 for the cpu, 1 for the ram and 1 for the hyper transport. This is good enough for most overclocking IF there is a heatsink on the mosfets and you have good case airflow.
8+1 would be the same as 4+1 (for the most part, as overclocking will probably be hard or inadvisable on an amd system, unless those mosfets have heatsinks, and even then it probably won't be great)... only the ammount of power you can shove through the cpu will be greatly increased (meaning you can use a 125W tdp cpu)... of course anyone who's overclocked amd will know, the cpu is only half the story, and the lack of a robust power management for the hypertransport/northbridge will likely torpedo any serious overclocks.
8+2 would be ideal for overclocking a 125W TDP AMD cpu, for all the reasons a 4+2 setup would be good enough to overclock a 95W tdp amd cpu. Generally they just don't build these motherboards without heatsinks on the mosfets.