8gb of slower ram will be still better than 6 of the faster variety
I'd disagree. Most games will use up to 2 or 2.5GBs max. The faster ram should provide a very small boost. Most of the 8GB won't even be used. Sitting on my desktop I'm currently using just under 3GBs of ram. Even if I fired up a big game, I'd still be using less then 6GB. And if I needed more, I could close some of the program I have open.
6GB is an "odd" amount of ram to have though. Is the budget really so tight the extra $10 can't be found for 8GBs of 1333 at least? Last I saw 8GBs of 1600MHz was around $40-$50. Assuming you are in the USA.