Zac Jones :
the PSU was over-loaded because i had two r7770s and an i5-3570k overclocked. 500w wasn't enough for the two, so it just turned off and wouldn't turn back on. but yes, i do have the cpu and the cpu cooler installed with the main power connector connected. but when you say the cpu power connector, you're talking about the outlet next to the cpu socket on the very top of the motherboard?
yes i do have the cpu power connector connected.
If you look at Newegg's customer feedback on the Thermaltake TR2 500W you will see an abnormal percentage of the feedback reporting that the PSU blew up when it wasn't even under a heavy load.
Does the CPU cooler fan turn/twitch at all when you press the power switch connected to the motherboard?
Is there an LED indicator on the motherboard that indicates that the motherboard is receiving +5V standby power when you turn on the PSU's power switch?