Short answer: you don't (find such a list).
Longer answer: you create such a list an post online for others to criticize for being out of date, missing titles, and end up dealing with flamewars.
Real answer: Are you looking for PC/handheld, iOS, android, DS, Vita, or other "handheld device".
IMHO your best bet is to look at the play/app store or whatever it's called and try some games that look interesting and aren't too big, not strategy enough, too complex, whatever. Maybe start with a list of good building/strategy games for whatever OS you are using.