timil :
I got BSOD with 219 FSB and 16.5 multiplier (3600mhz) and 1.4250, im now running prime with same settings and 1.45v.
i sorta posted that long litany because you need to know how high of a FSB your cpu will work with. they are limited, not by voltage or temps but by motherboard, psu and cpu. since you don't know how all those parts will interact you need to learn what the upper limits of your fsb/cpu frequency (you'll notice i called it both, and you're right, they mean the same thing... mostly)... so you know what's possible. if you set your cpu frequency to 219 and your chip will only go to 215, no amount of voltage will ever stabilize it.
and yeah. generally speaking the c2 phenom IIs loved their fsb/cpu frequency overclocking. they also tend to hit a wall HARD with their upper limits. meaning when they get to the end of their overclocking, the temps and voltages go sky high just for a small bump in speed.
which actually is almost like how most phenom's act. my c3 (same 965) likes both fsb and multiplier, but one thing is for certain 4.0 is as fast as it will go and stabilize and it takes WAY more vcore and heat then i ever want to stick into a cpu. I even got it to load into windows at 4.2... but yeah... even idling the temps were out of this world. ended up backing it down to a nice happy 3.8ghz... almost no vcore increase, almost no heat. and plenty of speed under the hood (3.8 is where the phii x4 965be sorta tops out on the gains from overclocking)