Phillip Corcoran said:
This should help: http://www.mydigitallife.info/how-to-disable-windows-7-media-player-network-sharing-service-wmpnetwk/
Recheck your Services Console. The service is called "Windows Media Player Network Sharing Service"
Maybe you didn't scroll down the list far enough, you were looking for a service starting with the word "Media" instead of "Windows" ? If Windows says the service is in use, it must be in the list of services I would have thought.
Thanks Phillip worked a treat it was there all the time just could not find it, all other "Windows" had a prefix letter after the "Windows" A B C etc but nothing showing for M until I put the cursor on it and low and behold there it was thanks again much appreciated