Ah, so you were a little unstable at that speed and voltage. Your build and OC is very similar to mine (listed below), only I enabled speedstep. What voltage did you end up going to? I intended to go higher with mine, but when I realized that nothing I could do in the OS would cause my CPU to jump to that speed I figured it wasn't worth it. Plus running a higher voltage can decrease the life of the CPU. I still need to run a few benchmarks and see if I get any extra FPS with the cpu overclock, my guess is it won't make much of a difference.
Anyway, this video helped me out quite a bit, if you haven't seen it you may want to take a look. It goes into quite a bit of detail and it might help you get higher than 4.5GHz. It is for Sandy Bridge E, but it's still X79 and mostly all relevant:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kx2z07sFM2I
CPU: Intel i7 4930k @ 4.5GHz, 1.32V
CPU Cooler: Corsair H110
Case: CM Storm Sniper
GPU: EVGA GTX 780 superclocked, with ACX Cooler
PSU: Kingwin Lazer 1000W
MB: Asus P9X79 Pro
RAM: GSkill Trident 32GB, 8X4 2133MHz CL9
OS: Windows 7