Thanks for the answer...and that's too bad I suppose.
The problem I'm having is that I like to game a lot during the night and am kind of a computer hobbyist (hack), but during the day I run my own business as a mechanical engineer. I use a modeling package called solid edge from seimens for the most part and also some adobe apps. My setup that seemed to work ok with my software was the i5 and a GTX560Ti-448 with 8GB of memory running at 2133. I have been doing more surface modeling and there are features within the software to do dynamic editing of splines and guides which will change the surface shape on the fly. The response on this is pretty slow, almost to the point of using the dynamic portion is not worthwhile...but I feel with faster computational response to the curve changes using this feature would be advantagous. I have upgraded (if you can call it that) my graphics to an AMD firepro W7000. It should be more than capable of handling the graphics portion. I have also installed another 8GB of identical memory. I really miss my old 560 card, as I think it was a much stronger performer over all, but not for the application...and that's what makes the money. I overclock to around 4.5k, but feel that opening up the memory bandwidth would be a greater benefit than just going with a newer processor (like a 4770k). That's why I was interested in the IV-E versions. Short of building a separate system for my CAD work, does that sound like I'm on the right track...or does anyone have any better suggestions. I just finished a nice job and have a little change to upgrade with right now, but I still don't want to invest in a poor decision.
PS - Also, the HT and the memory bus seem to be pretty nice on the opteron, but I also read that AMD hardware works better when matched to AMD rather than AMD intel.