So this is technically like my first build, and despite everything taking longer than I thought I would it's all up and running now. I read this thread recently and it made me more confident with the OS:
http://www.tomshardware.co.uk/forum/51973-63-win7-motherboard
I'll just go over what issues I ran into and how they were resolved:
Firstly installing the FX-8350 stock cooler on this mobo was a pain. I had to unscrew the mount entirely and then fit those hooks onto it and then screw it back on securely.
I then got the 5 beeps and dr. debug 0d error I think it was and figured out my GPU wasn't completely plugged in..
The first 4 gig boot USB I made a long time ago in advance kept saying missing drivers (no the usb 2.0 port didn't work either), so I redownloaded and created a new one from a digital river iso and then the usb download and create tool hung at 99% every time which I figured was something attributed to a bootsect.exe error
So I just followed command prompt commands to format it to 'fat32' and then dragged the extracted files onto it...
So I got windows 7 on there and was able to automated phone activate it successfully
see the thread I linked (the copy of windows is only being used on 1 machine).
I ran the mobo drivers, did a few winodws updates, shut down after installing some
and then simply plugged in the HDD and it immediately recognized on boot didn't have to do disk management or anything
I ran the steam.exe as administrator off the HDD and it loaded up normally (I think the client is still on the HDD...)
I tried steam mover to put 2 games on the SSD but it said the local files were still on the old drive
Soooo I after watching a linux tech tip video and looking at the best solution on this thread:
http://www.tomshardware.co.uk/forum/293599-32-move-steam-games-drive-other
I just dragged the game folder to the new appropriate mirrored folder on the other drive,
deleted the local files from the old drive,
reinstalled and pointed to other steam directory mirrored on the other drive
and boom DayZ and South Park (I kno the latter prolly won't benefit too much from the SSD)
but still now it's there. And, all my other games and files are still accessible on the HDD...
Also, photoshop still runs off the old HDD... and the steam client isn't on my SSD at the moment.
luckily my RAM all recognized, it's 3 sticks for a total of 10 gigs but I think since its 3 it's not running in dual channel, need the 2 set or 4 set, right?
but yeah there's the first makeshift build I got, I apologize for the wall-o-text but hopefully this might help a couple other people out and yall can suggest any other optimizations I may have overlooked.
oh and also upon the first windows 7 install "several restarts" I had to redo the bios away from boot from usb so that the windows 7 install could complete whilst booting from the SSD.
Thank you!