Wow, I am terribly sorry to hear about that my friend...
The only things that I am left to suggest to you would be:
1) Have you tried installing both the Kingston modules and clear the CMOS?
Usually there is a jumper on the board, it should mention in the manual where it is located with instructions. Make sure you turn off the power to the power supply on the back (if there is one) and / or unplug the power cord first. Usually you would just move the jumper over for like 10-30 seconds, while all power is disconnected, and then set the jumper back to original position. If it doesn't have a jumper and its only 2 prongs, you just short them with a screwdriver to complete the connection for 10 seconds and then let it go, while there is no power of course. Then you could reconnect, power up and reboot.
That would set all BIOS settings back to the default. I know it may be a pain setting it all up again, but sometimes clearing all the things that have been tinkered with and just booting as close to default settings as possible may enable them where one setting may be causing the troubles.
Try not even changing any BIOS settings at all once it has been reset just to see how far it gets.
2) If that fails, you mentioned that any one of these single sticks will work in the slot A1? You could try running memtest86+, the latest version, for about 3 hours per stick to determine if any of the sticks are faulty. Do each stick separate on it's own. You really should be concerned about the 2 Kingston modules primarily. Then if you want, check the ADATA one...
You can get the program here:
http://www.memtest.org/#downiso
It's very easy and straightforward to use. You can throw it on a blank CD and boot from that. Or get a spare USB flash stick you may have laying around and there is an auto-loader version that formats the USB stick and puts the image on for you. It will erase all data on the USB stick though.
Boot to the USB / CD and the program will start up on it's own and start testing the RAM. If you see any red / errors then the RAM is most likely faulty.
In some rare cases (like my current problem) it is not the fault of the RAM, it turned out to be the motherboard that was causing the RAM to appear faulty. To simplify and isolate the problem, I had resorted to even disconnecting everything unnecessary. Leaving just the motherboard, CPU and RAM connected directly to the power supply to conduct the most basic of testing without any other devices / disabling anything that may conflict.
Either way it's a good test to get out of the way so that you can proceed from there if need be.
3) I know we have covered most of these things, but here is an article straight from Microsoft in regards to the issue you are having:
http://support.microsoft.com/kb/978610
Maybe there is something that has been overlooked, in case you have not seen that article yet...
4) Last thing I can think of is that you could contact Kingston directly. Make sure you have the sticks in front of you with all the numbers and whatnot. They were very helpful with me in my previous issues and it was the reason that I even was able to solve the problem.
If all of the above fails, then I'm sorry to say there may be a deeper issue going on here. It could very well be a motherboard issue, maybe even power supply (which doesn't make as much sense seeing as how it does work fine with just one stick), or less likely another component.
I hope that is not the case and one of the above solutions does work for you. Good luck my friend and I'm sorry to not have been a greater help to you as of yet.