can someone tell me all the steps that are needed to run sli because i just got a second 760 but when i play bf4 at ultra I only get like 61 fps......... with 2 760's........... any suggestions
That sounds normal to me. Single GTX 760 can play at around high and SLI doesn't give you double the performance.
You can try to mess with AA or some other settings or make sure you have the latest driver installed.