So i guess that means there's no way of playing the ps3 on a 3D monitor with a good frame rate. If i was to play my pc in 3d with that monitor then will i have to buy an emitter and 3D glasses separately.
The framerate will always be the same on PS3, that has nothing to do with the monitor. You can use the monitor as an ordinary monitor, you just can't use the 3D feature.
And that is correct, you need an Nvidia card that supports 3d vision and the glasses.http://www.nvidia.ca/object/3d-vision-system-requirements.html