Power but no ethernet means we'll probably need to use some kind of wireless. WiFi is probably the best.
I'd set an RPi up as a webserver, and use PHP to run a command that turns on one of the GPIO ports when accessed, and either another page to turn it off or wire up a physical button to another GPIO or a latching relay.
Would it be possible to just have a button that someone hits whenever they run a package through the system? You wouldn't need to bother the software devs.