kullmar said:
And the only way to monitor his network traffic is through his computer? It'd feel awkward to tell him that I doubt him
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is there no third-party software that acts as a QoS?
Do you feel better about not just doubting him but acting on those unproven doubts to go behind his back to throttle his access?
The approach is not to assume he is lying but to bring him in as a friend and collaborator in solving your problem. With something like this, " I've done everything I can think of on my computer, can we look at your machine together and run a few tests for comparisons to make sure there is nothing I've missed?"
You don't have to tell him all your looking for. It isn't lying not tell him all your suspicions. They are not accusations or conclusions, just hypotheses to be tested, confirmed or falsified along with others hypotheses you are working with.