going with the 1230 v3 and a cheap h81 motherboard would be very potent. If I didn't want to skip the hassle of dealing with changing mobos due to me having an OEM win7, I'd prob get an h97 and Xeon 1230 v3 now and see how the devil canyon pans out, the h97/z97 I've read is also guaranteed to have Broadwell support in 2015 too.
Even the h81 still has USB 3.0 and Sata 6. As time goes on I'm kinda caring less and less about the extreme e peen about flashy overclocking,etc. Give me a reliable cheapish motherboard and a stout cpu like the Xeon I don't have to overclock anyway (and dem 8 threads
) and I'm happy....I'm really not interested in crossfire/sli, I'd rather have 1 strong card than combining 2 others, I also really don't have any intention of ever going above 1080p for many years to come.
In short, the Xeon 1230 v3 would serve you for MANY years to come. There's still people gaming fine on the old first gen i7 920s and those are clocked kinda low at 2.66ghz, and haswell is a good improvement clock for clock over them on top of being clocked higher.
Try to get a motherboard with multi core enhancement