Refer to
this post (thought you tried it, since you said you tried most of those things...). The last part related to Display Driver Uninstaller.
Memtest is downloadable from
PassMark software, while Display Driver Uninstaller is downloadable from
Guru3D; both tools will require you to read and follow instructions
CLEARLY AND TO THE LETTER, especially for DDU.
Failing to follow the given instructions can (very rarely and only if things are done utterly wrong) damage your hardware. I hold no responsibility, should any sort of damage strike you (hardware malfunction, loss of data, etc...). IF, however, you follow instructions correctly, everything will go pretty much smooth without no one getting hurt.
In any case, my bad for the 64; i meant memtest86, sorry about that
Got a lot on my mind lately.
As per testing sticks 1 by 1, you're going to do that "physically", meaning that each test has to be done while only 1 stick is present into the system. Once you've downloaded memtest and followed the instructions to install it and use it, it'll mainly go like this:
1) Unplug every cable from your computer and wait 10-15 minutes (capacitors need to power off completely).
2) Open your PC case's side cover. (Keep it at hand and on the groung, touch it every once in a while to discharge any static current you may have and thus avoid damaging your components)
3) Remove all of your RAM sticks but one
4) Close your PC case's side cover.
5) Plug everything back and boot memtest.
6) Run memtest
Repeat the same procedure for all sticks 1 by 1. This will ensure that, should any significant error happen, you will know for sure which stick is actually faulty.