Yeah I have had a lot of problems with my 1866mhz ram too, it would not accept the manual timings from the sticks themselves and used to crash constantly, even when it did make it past the post screen it would corrupt my hard drives... in the end I found out that I had to set the command rate from 1T to 2T and that solved my problem, but what a ballache! Even Asus technical support didn't know what was going on. (I would try to then flash to an updated version of the BIOS if it doesn't work and try that 1T to 2T trick again)
Also another thing which baffled me at first - when you enter a value in the BIOS, lets say ram timing of cas latency of 8 for instance, you have to press 'enter' or it wont stick. It will still say 8 but when you go out of the screen and back in again the value will have changed back to what it was.
To be honest the sabertooth motherboards are not very good, this is my second one because the last 'military grade' PCIE slot snapped off the board when I removed my graphics card, and I was quite gentle... now my second one's on-board sound has died, glad they have 5 year warranties but its waiting 3 weeks for a new one thats the pain.