If you want to get your card now, and the rest later, performance will not suffer horribly with a 965. OC it up a bit, Northbridge at least since that gives the most performance on that chip with the least heat/voltage penalty.
This let's you do one step at a time so you don't need gigantic wads of cash all in one shot.
I did one step at a time. Video card, (prior 7870), then psu/case, (from crappy original), then mobo to the current Sabertooth, putting my 975BE in it, since it fits in AM3+ sockets just fine, played that for 8 months or so, then 8350/R290x of the current build.
And never stopped playing at any time for longer than it took to drop the parts in. Had steady improvements all along the way.
*doing this kind of thing means having a clear end goal in mind, to keep all parts usable and compatible at every step.