Slick2sick :
hang-the-9 :
This is entirely up to you. What anyone else wants to do should not matter to you. I would not do either of those things and spend $200 on a weekend trip with my wife and kids. So as you can see, you need to decide since what I would do is not what you would do.
On the good side, the phone service and hardware companies make a good deal of money from people like you that like to switch phones all the time so if you buy a new phone you are helping the people that work for those companies
im 18 years i dont have a family what would u suggest?
I think you missed my point LOL It's clear from your question you were pretty young, I was not thinking you actually had kids, although I would have guessed closer to 14 or 15 than 18.
If I knew you for 6 years and knew what you liked, what you did, what other stuff you had, how much money you made, etc... I may be able to suggest something.
Since you are just asking strangers, nothing anyone suggests would have any value to you. You would know what THEY would want, not what you want. If you can't make decide on your own, flip a coin.
Now if you asked if you should get the iPhone 5s or the 6 or an Android based one, that is a lot easier to deal with since you can point out benefits between then and they are all the same class. Asking between a phone, computer, tablet, xbox, that's all personal preerence.