Ok, this makes no sense to me maybe some of you guys with a little more knowledge can figure it out. I just took one of my 2 sticks of ram out and booted up just cause i couldn't sit there not trying something. Screen comes up that says bla bla bla memory changed please enter settings. i think i fucked up so i turn off, put ram back in and boot up. same message comes up, then goes to msi logo with press del to access bios or press f11 to enter boot menu. i scramble and press a few keys (i dont think i even hit delete) but BAM it takes me to bios. best part, i get full control over keyboard and mouse. have rebooted several times since and everything works as it should.
the computer gods were with me tonight. thanks for all your advice guys.