I'd get a Xenon 1230 v3 and lots of RAM if you're not overclocking much. Other wise, a good cooler, the 8320 or 8320E, and lots of RAM as well.
Hey, as I told Joe, I realized that I didn't add the specs I would use if I went with the i5. My bad. I'm not trying to convince you one way or another, I just don't want to withhold any info that may affect your suggestion. Sorry about that!