How to Convince My Parents to Let Me Build a Gaming PC

AgentLOL

Reputable
Nov 16, 2014
229
0
4,690
I HAVE THIS QUESTIONS SOLVED, BUT I HAVE LEFT THIS THREAD OPEN IF ANYONE WANTS TO FREELY COMMENT OR TALK ABOUT SOMETHING :):):):):)



So, I'm 13, and its nearing my birthday. Right now I'm using a Mid-2012 Macbook Air to game, really only play Minecraft at 60FPS, and that's the only game cause' my parents think gaming is a huge time buster, leaving me with no console, except for the Wii with Mario games. That's my intro.

So, I first wanted to get a pre-built PC. Seeing how pricy they were, thought of building my own PC. Yearning to actually play other video games (my parents don't approve of violent video games sadly), I put together this really good PC for about $1,400, without peripherals. (Don't ask if they really have the money for that, cause my dad uses a giant iMac). So, I approach them ask my dad (he usually manages everything with electronics). He says that you will only save $50 by building, I won't let you build one, but rather purchase one, as it takes forever. They said that a $800 computer is good enough for school work. I explain that I want these components, and my dad realizes its for gaming.

So that pretty much ended the argument with a NO, and since then, been trying to convince him. I just don't know what's the right time to ask my dad. He owns a office and said that he would grab one from his office that's new, and left to go to the mall. Man, he just won't understand. While everyone else (my friends) sit back and play on their supercomputers and Xbox Ones, I get to sit here playing just Minecraft on my horrible laptop. With that being said, hopefully you read this all and give me a suggestion, and thanks for reading!

http://pcpartpicker.com/p/B4T9yc
 

AgentLOL

Reputable
Nov 16, 2014
229
0
4,690
My parents don't want me to have an actual job, but rather focus on school work and getting good grades. The fact that I'm in Magnet(School that is 1 grade lvl above what I'm in) gives me a ton of work doesn't help. I'm in seventh grade, but I'm doing seventh and eighth grade stuff. I have mostly B's and 1 A, but my parents want me to have all A's, like my sister! (I don't know how she got those grades, she went through magnet in the same school). My parents just don't know how hard it is...
 

USAFRet

Titan
Moderator
What I always told my kids for stuff like this:
Either take my old PC and like it, or you fess up 1/2 the money for something else. I'll put up the other 1/2. Be it a PC, car, or whatever.

But you have to come to me with 1/2 the money first.
 

RealBeast

Titan
Moderator
I would go with the angle that building a PC is not about saving money (although it does), it is about learning. :D

Then configure it with everything that you want except a high end video card, but have that in mind for a future upgrade when you save the money for it.

Arguing with Dad never works though, so don't go that way. Find every way that you can use it to help with your grades and they will be more likely to go along with you.
 

COLGeek

Cybernaut
Moderator

Making/saving $$$ does not necessarily entail getting a job. Little things for family and neighbors can take little time and eventually add up to enough to build your desired rig.

Making good grades is something that I sure your parents understand, particularly how much effort is required to do so.

It sounds more like you want a gift rather than something you earn.
 

AgentLOL

Reputable
Nov 16, 2014
229
0
4,690
Well, this is a lot of people in a short amount of time. I will answer everyone all at once, cause' I'm pretty new to the forums and don't know how to quote.

So, about go to other neighbors and getting money like that. Well, the farthest I've gone is I make my bed every day for 1 dollar. And personally, that's kinda pointless, given that there are only 365 days in a year, so $365 dollars in a year. So I would have to wait 3 years before I get anything decent. Other than that, the rest of my family lives in another country, and there isn't much grass up here on the mountains. My parents probably would not allow me doing that.

Getting money. Aaah, like I've ever gotten money. I can't really celebrate birthdays, having it on Christmas Eve, and even then, whatever money I have my parents say that I have to use that money for college(which is about a few hundred dollars, part of that money my parents said I could use for anything BUT gaming).

About learning. My dad doesn't even know what grade I'm in. He thinks I'm either in 8th, 9th, or 7th. Then my mom corrects him. My dad thinks that you won't learn much because all you're doing is "assembling" a computer. He thinks its just getting parts and putting them together. So he doesn't get the educational part of this. When he comes bad home I'll tell him it could be useful for robotics (cause they want me to get into that club in high school, and I do too). And the price isn't really the big issue (well sort of, but not really). It's more of the fact that my dad doesn't feel like I need a new computer, or he doesn't want to get one equipped for gaming.

Well you see, I can't really "earn" it unless I get all A's (which, by the way, is almost impossible, like I think 5-10 people in my grade lvl have that). My parents don't exactly make any way of "earning" it. The second they hear something related to gaming, they instant response is NO. The only way I can get something for gaming is if I go head on and throw a BIG argument with tantrums, etc, which I don't personally enjoy.

So with that being said, I guess I'll wait and see what other people say. Isn't this a conundrum, isn't it? But, I APPRECIATE all of your answers and will take them into consideration (try using the ones I can to convince my parents).

 
Well, don't say it's for gaming. you can always learn to code, like doing Java or C++. You'll only be needing cheap parts (~300-400$), and I'm sure your parents can foot a part of the bill. If you get better grades later on, you could convince your parents to let you buy a GPU and game on the computer.
 

COLGeek

Cybernaut
Moderator
You have quite the dilemma here. Your parents make the rules and set the priorities. You have to work within those parameters.

So, why not accept the $800 system you mentioned earlier and add a better GPU later when you can manage it? Such a rig would likely outperform the system you are using now by a fair margin and would give you the foundation to improve upon in the future.

 

AgentLOL

Reputable
Nov 16, 2014
229
0
4,690
I would accept the $800, if my dad didn't keep changing his mind like crazy and lie half the time. He suggested that he could buy another MBA (Macbook Air). Looking at just that, I feel like my dad shouldn't be making these weird restrictions and changing his mind and lying. But hey, my MBA overheats to about 80-109C playing mine craft with a 6500 RPM fan whirling. I really wish my computer would shut down so I would have reasons to get a better PC. Oh, why does Apple have to be that good?
 

COLGeek

Cybernaut
Moderator

This is an easy choice. Get nothing...... Or, get a pre-built that can be modified over time. Just a way to consider the options.

Regardless, we can offer little advice that can convince the parents to do anything. They are right to set priorities and to enforce them. Really not an issue we can resolve.
 

AgentLOL

Reputable
Nov 16, 2014
229
0
4,690
I do know what are inside pre-built systems. Motherboard, GPU, CPU, PSU, case, OS, Hard Drive, CPU Cooler, and yeah, I think that's all of the parts.

I understand that my parents kinda control us all, and that we all were once certain ages. Yes, waiting might be the answer, but with Black Friday and Cyber Monday right round' the corner, and the Nvidia Path Deal ending right round' the corner, its hard to wait. In fact, thats the bane of my existence. Patience.
 

COLGeek

Cybernaut
Moderator

He was referring to the quality of the components and their capabilities, not the actual items included. Some pre-builts can be of questionable quality.


 

AgentLOL

Reputable
Nov 16, 2014
229
0
4,690
No, I actually don't That's what I'm waiting for, to see what he has in his office. Chances are, thats what I'm gonna use. I'm scared that it would be near the same performance as my laptop, as I wouldn't think you would need a high end PC to run such basic stuff, such as programming. What I would like to see, however, is to have a computer made for professional picture/video editing, if he even has one in his office, cause those have pretty good stuff. I'm not sure if the video/picture editing is done by another company/place.
 

USAFRet

Titan
Moderator


Put the concept of "Black Friday" and "Cyber Monday" out of your mind. That is strictly a marketing term, for 'random crap that is on sale between Halloween and mid-January'.

It is NOT a good sale day. Unless you want to fight the people at Walmart for some POC that they do not want in the warehouse anymore.
I've bought the exact same part, 3 months before "Black Friday", for 15% less than the Black Friday price.
 

AgentLOL

Reputable
Nov 16, 2014
229
0
4,690


I was answering what another person had said, sorry. But yeah, I think pre-built PC's use cheap stuff to gain more profit.
 

AgentLOL

Reputable
Nov 16, 2014
229
0
4,690


I was thinking about ordering online, my parents would never even think about shopping on black friday.