holygaab :
So what would be the best solution if I only have my 1333mhz 4gb bar and i want to upgrade capacity to 8gb and have a gain in speed (can i dual channel with an other bar the one i already have.?)
Always buy your RAM in matched pairs if you can, that way you ensure that the timings and voltages are the same. As I said previously, there is a minimal and perhaps imperceptible speed difference between the two you're looking at. At best, you *might* pick up half an FPS. That's it. The only way you might see some difference is if you made a jump from 1333 to 2133 or higher. Even still, you likely wouldn't even notice it.
That said, either buy a single stick (or three others to fill all your DIMMS) that's rated at the same voltage and SPD as your current one or, conversely, ditch that and just buy a new paired 1600MHz setup.
What's more important to consider than the SPD rating is the actual timings: the lower the latency the better off you are. While SPD is a nice factor, it seems to be more about bragging rights than anything else as the differences are very, very slim and especially between shorter jumps (1333 to 1600, for example) than from a lower tier to a significantly higher one.
As a last note, buy the most you can afford. Seeing that many of the newer games are getting more and more intensive, the amount of both system RAM and graphics RAM is ever increasing. So if you can buy 16GB, go for it. The old mantra of "better to have something and not need it than to need it and not have it" fits well here. When I built my new rig, 16GB was the least I was going to even consider.