Look, DDR3 is a model, DDR2 don't fit in an motherboard with ddr3 neither otherwise.
Mostly if it says 2600 it will be 2600, but you need to check out the ram on the net, just google it, put it's type code on the google and you will see it.
Yes you need an motherboard that support's 2600mhz otherwise you won't be able to use all of its frequency, it will be limited to your motherboard max cap.
But you can use it, it will only "downgrade" your ram (it will run at lower frequency)
Ex: your mobo max ram frequency is 1333mhz, and you put an 2600mhz ram stick on it, the ram stick will run at 1333mhz.