Annoying Blinking Sleep LED

So lately vendors have taken themselves the task of making the power LED blinks when the board goes to sleep, instead of, just another color LED (more civilized) as they used to. Some vendors just turn off the LED altogether.

Has anybody found a fix, either via software or hardware of this?

I want to use a two-color LED indicator, bright blue when ON, dim amber when SLEEP and of course dark when OFF, like God intends it to be.
 
You cant just add this in, at least not without having a good background in circuits and coding.

You need 2 leds, one for the orange one for the blue, you need a controller/relay to control which one gets power, a digital output to signal said controller/relay and then software in windows to control that digital output.