Which partlist do you guys think is better?

Solution
Option 2 for G3258.
Here is a direct comparison:
http://www.techspot.com/review/1017-best-budget-gaming-cpu/

Spoiler: core speed trumps number of cores.
Those CPUs have very close performance. For option 1, I don't understand the point in spending so much on a motherboard. You could overclock with an H81 mobo and spend less than half. With the money you save, you could get an SSD or some other better components.