Not really, we just said it differently. Your cpu has 16x lanes that are used for the pcie slot (basicly), while the chipset has 20x lanes for aditional bandwith. If you plug the m.2 in a pcie slot it will put your card in 8x, but even if it does it isnt a concern since there is no preformance difference.If you put the m.2 ssd in the m.2 slot in the motherboard your card should still run in 16x
And no, you cant just upgrade the no. of cpu lanes with drivers.