You need to update your wife to the newest version.
I used to have this problem, my wife would make me feel very safe and secure. Then sometimes out of the blue she would act like she didn't even know who I was.
When your wife starts treatING you like this it may be time to move on before it gets worse.
Before you know it she starts adding hardware which may be incompatible with your system.
The auto update can produce results which will leave you much poorer and create a lot of stress.
Hope it works out for you.