Ram is sold in kits for a reason.
A motherboard must manage all the ram using the same specs of voltage, cas and speed.
Ram from the same vendor and part number can be made up of differing manufacturing components over time.
Some motherboards can be very sensitive to this.
This is more difficult when 4 sticks are involved.
That is why ram vendors will NOT support ram that is not bought in one kit.
It is safer to get what you need in one kit.
But, it is a bit more expensive because of the added matching of all the sticks to insure compatibility.
What are the odds of success??
I really do not know.
For modern Intel motherboards perhaps > 80%
For older motherboards or amd motherboards, the ram is more tightly linked so perhaps not so good.
The chance of success is high enough that I might, in your situation, try it.
If it did not work properly, 8gb will still run reasonably well.
And, let you run while you order something guaranteed to work.
Look on a ram vendor's web site and use their ram selection app.
Enter your motherboard and you will get a list of compatible ram.
Pick a 8gb stick that is compatible and then buy a second.
If you have a problem, raising the ram voltage a bit more than the default may work.
Also, favor stock speed ram running at stock voltages. Faster ram is not that helpful anyway.