They are indeed relative terms but in this case the OP is looking for the largest sticks the G41 chipset supports, which are made from sixteen 1Gb chips in
128Mx8, which have
not been made in years and are often incompatible with later chipsets. The easiest way is to look it up on the memory manufacturers' compatibility configurator pages or ask them, as often the datasheets do not contain this information and heatspreaders cover the markings on the chips.
Note that
G41 only officially supports up to 4GB of DDR3 although it uses the same northbridge MCH as G43 which only has a different southbridge yet officially supports 8GB. There are specific reports of some
8GB working in G41.