Baelsur :
I understand its not the greatest cpu, i just want to see if i can get the load temps down, i runs my games good, just runs to hot
Hi Baelsur
If your temperatures are becoming too excessive under load then you can upgrade the Cooler or drop your Core voltage.
Droping the Core voltage will reduce temps however your system will become unstable and you will then have to drop your CPU frequency and loose some performance. Not the best solution.
65C on the core under stress is not excessive.
AIO Water coolers help with OCing however decent and cheaper Air coolers do a better job than smaller AIOs.
It depends on your tower case if you can fit one and a H100 or equivalent should be considered.
Also consider your Thermal Paste and replace it with a good thermal conductive paste like AS5 or MX4.