Without extensive BIOS modding it's not possible to upgrade to Ivy Bridge (ix-3xxx) from Sandy Bridge (ix-2xxx) on laptops, so that rules out the 3612QM. The 2630QM might work, but due to the higher TDP (and HP's bad reputation for designing awful cooling systems) I wouldn't go that route either. The i7-2640M is the best CPU I'd recommend for that laptop, as the TDP is the same 35W.