That´s not true because of the memory management of the CPU. If you install 4GB additionally, the whole memory will run in dual channel, but "only" 8GB are available.
If you install 8GB additionally, also "only" 8GB will run in dual channel, but there will be another 4GB in single channel mode available for the system too.
More than 8GB wouldn´t be necessary I think, but the more the better