if you are not going to stick it inside the microwave oven, or remove and insert it with hte pc turned on, don't see how you will fry something by adding a ram module to a motherboard
a bit negtive from your part
sounds like you need to watch all the pc assembly guide videos on youtube, austin evans just uploaded one of those
insert the ram module in the ram slot, with the pc turned off, then turn it on, stop worrying with frying the pc, or burn the house, the pc is here to help you, not to be afraid of it