bill001g :
When it is time of day it almost has to be all those other people using up all "your" bandwidth.
You can run tracert to the server and see what hop the delays are in. If if only affects one game it is likely between your isp and the game company ISP far into the cloud. If it affected many games then it could be things like one of your direct neighbors using up the bandwidth.
You really can't fix this since it is outside your house and your ISP likely does not care.
The only thing that might work is to use some form of vpn. If you can get good ping times to the vpn data center and the VPN data center has a different path between the data center and the game server you might be able to do that.
There is no way to know this other than to test it. I know I have to do that when I visit a relative for one game. The ISP seems to have a overloaded connection to 1 particular ISP. I ended up subscribing for 1 month to 3 different VPN before I found one that solved it. Would be nice if they let you test really simple stuff like tracert without paying money.
ive used a traceroute and these are the results:
TRACEROUTE:
traceroute to 77.125.129.123 (77.125.129.123), 15 hops max, 60 byte packets
1 24.105.40.6 (24.105.40.6) 0.646 ms 0.785 ms 0.846 ms
2 24.105.62.152 (24.105.62.152) 0.797 ms 0.948 ms 1.017 ms
3 37.244.1.102 (37.244.1.102) 2.309 ms 2.431 ms 2.463 ms
4 37.244.1.34 (37.244.1.34) 2.095 ms 2.149 ms 2.206 ms
5 te0-19-0-2.ccr41.ord03.atlas.cogentco.com (38.104.102.28) 2.305 ms 2.438 ms 2.468 ms
6 be2766.ccr42.ord01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.46.177) 2.006 ms 1.999 ms 1.993 ms
7 be2718.ccr22.cle04.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.7.130) 9.159 ms 9.137 ms 9.129 ms
8 be2879.ccr22.alb02.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.29.174) 20.616 ms 20.632 ms 20.673 ms
9 be2302.ccr32.bos01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.43.13) 23.549 ms 23.582 ms 23.857 ms
10 be2983.ccr42.lon13.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.1.177) 85.997 ms 86.011 ms 86.004 ms
11 be2871.ccr21.lon01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.58.186) 86.594 ms 86.651 ms 86.628 ms
12 be2866.rcr21.b015533-1.lon01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.56.238) 87.081 ms 88.090 ms 88.066 ms
13 149.14.147.90 (149.14.147.90) 88.502 ms 88.639 ms 88.617 ms
14 80.179.165.209.static.012.net.il (80.179.165.209) 156.486 ms 171.231 ms 171.203 ms
15 82.102.132.157 (82.102.132.157) 148.757 ms 149.267 ms 149.206 ms
i think my problem is that my traffic flows via 15 servers, will a vpn solve that? and if so can you recommend a free vpn that has decent internet speed?
thanks
note: each server has 3 ping results, the middle one is the average one