solution: log into netflix on a PC
chose parents netflix profile
goto account, scroll to bottom
limit video quality to medium or low.
save.
repeat for any other profile on account that is watching netflix when you are playing.
happy gaming my friend
imo QoS does not work, the issue is with requesting, just restricting a programs downstream will result in said program flooding upstream to request data faster, resulting in 'input' lag. netflix has understood this poorly understood system and made their service self restricting. thumbs up for the netflix internet master who was responsible for that decision.