Why did you have to reseat the memory? Sounds like either a memory module is faulty, and has a direct short which is heating up the memory controller and CPU somehow, or you have a module seated incorrectly and pins are touching that shouldn't be.
Something must be different and I'd guess that it was that way before you attempted to reseat the memory, as you should never have to reseat the memory once it's been done correctly to start with.
That, or there is a motherboard failure and something similar is directly shorted on the board. I'd pull all the memory except one stick and see if you still have issues. Keep in mind, that in bios and pre-windows environments, there is really no such thing as "not using the CPU much" as it will get full voltage and no power saving features until it is in an OS environment that supports those features. Likely it will be as hot as you'll ever see it in an idle state.
Also, make sure all fans are operating normally and that the CPU heatsinks are not packed up with dust and dirt.