I hate to have to go through this again, but:
Your hard drive LED on the case should flash when you first turn the computer on. If it turns on and stays one, your cable is backwards. If it doesn't turn on at all, your drive is either unplugged, missing, or fried, or your IDE light isn't connected to the board properly.
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