Your advice puts the NF7-m back in a good light. I was reading a review at OCprices.com for the NF7-m and the guy was able to do 207fsb I think, but only when using an add-in card. WIth integrated video enabled I think he couldn't go past 190, so I still think it's definitely a good choice; also, if anyone else considers this mobo with integrated video, it is very important to have dual channel memory (I know somebody already told me about this here in the forums) as there is a huge difference between single and dual channel for onboard video.
So if I buy the epox I save around $10 on the mobo and get a ~$60 vcard. I guess $50 are definitely worth the separate card and onboard SATA, also the Epox comes with a lot of cables, including round IDEs; however it lacks the spdif out, but in any case I don't think I'd ever need that. I think for the time being I'll buy one 512 stick of the twinmos and another one later on. Also, what was that cheap PSU Crashman says is good? I might need one better than the one that comes in the case I'm buying.
I know this question is for another forum but since you guys have been so helpful, I just saw the hardocp article that compares a ti4600 and 8500, so I decided it was worth it to get the 4200, I'm expecting to use this card for at least 1 year. What do you think of the Gainward ultra 650 ti4200 64mb at $81, I found it on gameve.com, they're so so, according to resellerratings (7.59), I like it that it already has a composite tv out. There's also a Chaintech 64mb ti4200 for $89 at futurepowerpc, gpu at 250, mem at 512, tv-out (which I want) they're doing very well at rr.com (8.86) but they're very new. Lastly, an MSI 4200 8x 64mb at $82 at partspc.com, but they don't look good with 6.09 at rr.com, MSIs site doesn't even mention that model.