ahh yeah tahts unfrotunate. A good game obliterated only by its own coding. I know little about coding a game, but bohemia (developers) somehow knows less. I have a thread up in arma2 multiplayer forums hating on the rediculous amount of consistent lag and player warping that goes on in the game regardless of ones conncetion speed.
All players agree the game has serious issues. Few ppl are hardcore enough to deal with it...and bohemia of course has said not a word on the thread.
do urself a favor and get battlefield bc2 until battlefield 3 comes out....for on that day...the heavens will collapse. and I will likely not leave my computer chair for years.