20-pin connector fits fine. It's offset to one side. That configuration works with most Asus boards. Since the pins are shaped a bit differently, it only fits one way-the right way.
I find it hard to believe you have a 450W power supply without the 4-pin ATX12v connector. That connector came out over 4 years ago, long before most 450W power supplies were on the market.
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