Ok, I need some help. I don't know if this is a dumb question but I want to know if I can connect directly to a friends computer over the internet so we can trade files. What software do I need to do this and how do I set it up. We are both in the same city but with different ISP's and I have a SMC router/firewall. Is this possible. Does one of us have to be set up as a server and the other person connect to it??? Do I need FTP software to connect directly to another persons computer? Please help.