Oh I see. I am sorry about not being specific. I am trying to use the Dragon Age Mod Manager. I don't seem to know how to get the mods to come up in the program. I believe I have found out how to do it manually though.
You probably need to put the file in a specific folder, if you plan for the mod being permanent, then doing something like this (this is an example...) C:\Program Files (x86)\LucasArts\Star Wars Empire at War\GameData\Data and put the corresponding files from the mod in folders name the same....
Or, for most mod launchers, this is correct C:\Program Files (x86)\LucasArts\Star Wars Empire at War\GameData\mods you may have to make a "mods" folder, and it maybe mod instead of mods