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She's 50, blue eyed and gorgeous!

We met in Montréal, and talked for hours.

She meditates and does yoga.

She is like a teenager, spontaneous and enthousiastic about life.

She couldn't care less what you think about her and her excentricities, she is what she is, periode! She is "ravishing!"

She has had visions, seen deities, had astral projections and experienced the illusionary nature of what we consider "reality".

She is just fine thank you...

She feels Love and Compassion for all living creatures.

She tells me that the ultimate consciousness is not humand in nature, cause when you break through the illusion of the body, what you have left, is not related to the humand bodily form but to a more cosmic and universal reality.

I listen to her , with an open mind and an open heart, and, all I can feel is sincerety and honesty. She has very little Ego, if any! She has nothing to gain in telling me this. She couldn't care less whether I beleive her or not.

However , I could sense it from her eyes, she is not yet immune to humand feelings of Brotherly and Sisterly Love. She is my Sister in spirit. My best friend. I love her! She knows!

She said it would be nice to met again!

And she is so so right about that!

We first met on the net.

Do not underestimate the value of this new technology...a web of frienship and connectedness is forming...do not take it as frivolous...take it to heart...your internet friends are AS important as your real friends...one day the former may become the later...I know...




take care and have a good weekend
danny

<font color=green><b> Life is fleeting, tomorrows are uncertain, and lives unfulfilled are many.
May all beings be healthy and happy, sleep peacefully, and awaken fully.
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....er.....what do you want us to say?....

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Reply to WingDing

Dunno!

Maybe I didn`t need for anybody to say anything. Maybe it`s just I that needed to say something. It`s not a bad thing to trust and express your innermost feelings.

Peoples reactions can tell you a lot about them! And perhaps they can learn about themselves if they stop for a moment and look at what they just wrote!
Or perhaps, at what they did not write!

Take care, my friend
danny

<font color=green><b> Life is fleeting, tomorrows are uncertain, and lives unfulfilled are many.
May all beings be healthy and happy, sleep peacefully, and awaken fully.
!</b></font color=green>

Reply to pike

Well for what it's worth, my best wishes to you. And I agree that the Net is a great way to meet and interact with people. That's what keeps me coming back for more.

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Reply to WingDing

If you are happy about it then go with it. :smile:


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Reply to zpyrd

Well, imho, best wishes are worth everything!

So, yes, thx!

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May all beings be healthy and happy, sleep peacefully, and awaken fully.
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Reply to pike

I bet anything I`ve been misunderstood again...:(

I did say I loved her.

I did not say I wanted to marry her or even have sex with her.

You can love a woman, or another man dammit, and just leave it at that. Deep and sinsere affection, even spiritual I would dare add. No need to justify anything. No need to take any other actions. Just being friends. You are allowed to feel love for a good friend!

Am I wrong thinking like this?

Anyway

Maybe you did understand zp! :)


So, thx!

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Reply to pike

Have you gone to the shrink yet? I didn't know if you were really going or if it was a suggestion. Just curious.

Time Management is very important, a bucket with a small leak in the botom loses just as much water as a bucket that is kicked over.

Reply to Yahiko81

Yep, was serious.

Last thursday! She said after listening to teh wife and I: `Well, it`s quite apparent that Danny is going through a genuine spiritual seach!`
hahaha
Oh! Really Doc? :)
A woman psychologist...she`s cool!

And now it`s up to the two of us to come to terms with what she will accept me doing...(how fare she is willing to tolorate my adventures on the feminine side)...and what I`m willing to do to help her understand.

<font color=green><b> Life is fleeting, tomorrows are uncertain, and lives unfulfilled are many.
May all beings be healthy and happy, sleep peacefully, and awaken fully.
!</b></font color=green>

Reply to pike

That's cool. At least you guys are being open with each other.

Time Management is very important, a bucket with a small leak in the botom loses just as much water as a bucket that is kicked over.

Reply to Yahiko81

Of course!
And she knows everything about Emily!

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May all beings be healthy and happy, sleep peacefully, and awaken fully.
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Reply to pike

Oh I wasn't accusing of anything, I just was congratulating you on being open and honest with your wife.

Time Management is very important, a bucket with a small leak in the botom loses just as much water as a bucket that is kicked over.

Reply to Yahiko81

This is complicated for me.
I do not show/express emotion about feelings of love.
It has destroyed many relationships for me. As well as not developing possible relationships. I am a closed person.
I told my wife on our first date that I do not talk. Especially about personal feelings. For a while she didn't believe me. After ten years she has accepted that I am the way I am.
What is Love? I don't know. It can't be summed in a few words.
Is it possible to love someone without thinking about sex? Yes it is.
Do you love your friends?
Do you love your children?
Do you love your pets?
Do you love your parents?
Do you love your relatives?
etc. etc. etc. ....
Everyone has love for many people and animals and sex is not involved.


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Reply to zpyrd

[sidetrack]
Well for some love of animals leads to sex.
[/sidetrack]

Time Management is very important, a bucket with a small leak in the botom loses just as much water as a bucket that is kicked over.

Reply to Yahiko81

I did think of that.
But I think the animals are not the willing participant. In most cases.


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Reply to zpyrd

Quote :

You can love a woman, or another man dammit, and just leave it at that. Deep and sinsere affection, even spiritual I would dare add. No need to justify anything. No need to take any other actions. Just being friends. You are allowed to feel love for a good friend!


How you speak volumes about our similar mentalities!
This is how I feel, spiritual, love, it doesn't need to go further. I could tell me friends I love them, what's it to them, those closed bastards! (no offense to zpyrd!)
It seems like the majority Quebecers are THAT much closed, far more than other cultures.
Ya know, an example:
Last year I went to Lebanon in summertime. I missed by best friend, hadn't seen him in 4 years. How he has grown. Ya know, I didn't feel anything that was intimate, rather I felt his soul, I felt the friendship love. Despite how we don't share THIS much common tastes anymore, on that night when we were together at his house and he was playing and showing me a game on his comp, I just felt happy. On that moment in time, two friends reunited, just enjoy it. I felt like our spirits were connected, no matter what we don't share anymore, I just enjoyed it, he is my friend, and always will be ,simply because I love him a lot.

You're right pike, it IS NOT WRONG to think this, it is healthy in fact. I think everyone feels in it their unconscious, but as we know, the unconscious is as locked as the soul is to the spirit world. Or as locked as not knowing you belong in another world like in The Matrix.

I know some are closed, but we KNOW they are even though inside they simply hide it, while others, like my friends, simply express DIGUST and let out "GAY" simply because they are insecure and were not taught simply friend love. It's a shame I can't show them that!

Pike!
Your previous sig MEANT a lot to me. For a second after reading it, I felt realization. Take the risk and say what you fear may be rejected or laughed at. I felt so much encouragement.


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Reply to eden

Is this the orange chick or another one?

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Reply to dhlucke

Human relations are the most difficult things to understand, so much is involved and so much is misunderstood.

Yes, I understand, zp, your situation. It may be your family situation from youth, it may be a hereditary component, or both, and anyway it's ok, cause it is you!

However, do tell yourself that we are not rocks and that we are dynamic beings that are apt to changes. All my life I was an intraverted person, living my emotions inside myself and having a cold exterior to the world. Today, I'm happy when I can show my feelings to someone and not live them only on the inside. So, anyone can change part of their personality during their lifetime, and of course it always is for the better.

I would put forth that ALL love is the same, the same origin and has the same effect on our body and soul. However, one single type of love may be different and that is the romantic love for the opposite sex and only in the situation when we let this occur or can no longer control it.

All love emmanates from the heart area, physically, and we feel our self unimportant compared to the object of our affection at that moment in time. We temporarely loose our identity for the identity of the loved one. It's a feeling of liberation that is unequaled. A form of extasy. And , yes, all living creatures can be loved in this way!

<font color=green><b> Life is fleeting, tomorrows are uncertain, and lives unfulfilled are many.
May all beings be healthy and happy, sleep peacefully, and awaken fully.
!</b></font color=green>

Reply to pike

Does your wife know just how bad you REALLY are!

:)

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May all beings be healthy and happy, sleep peacefully, and awaken fully.
!</b></font color=green>

Reply to pike

I copy that!

Perhaps we could try and be just more tolerant with our comrades. You know , in time, they will all come around to the same realisation that we are all "connected" and that we are all drops of water striving to return to the ocean of cosmic consciousness. Of course some will get there before the others...:))

No rush

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Reply to pike

I am tolerant, I just push them to express themselves!

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Reply to eden

ok
walk softly and be gentle
:)

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Reply to pike

your way too deep for me, reminds me of a freind, your not nearly as bad though. he doesnt think anything can just happen, theres always some deeper meaning to it. once in a while he will go off on some hair brained idea that this idea he has in his head is all there is in the world and end up getting depressed over it, then eventually losing interest. its pretty annoying really.

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Reply to jihiggs

How does that make you feel? Why do you think he feels this way?

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Reply to dhlucke

he did a lot of drugs in highschool, then he stopped and was cool for a while, thats when we got to be freinds, now he is waiting for something in san luis and smoking 3 bowls of weed a day, and god knows what else.

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Reply to jihiggs

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we are all drops of water striving to return to the ocean of cosmic consciousness


I quite like that. I agree completely. I think that people in America, for the most part, are taught that their individuality comes first, and that community comes second. This shift in focus has led us to believe that we are separate from each other...and has also made us uncomfortable with showing love to one another...especially between men. It's seen as being weak, or "gay" or whatever. It's sad. The only time I've been around men who truly express themselves and openly appreciate one another is in a group of recovering addicts!

It's sad that Eden has to suffer ridicule for expressing compassion and love towards his friends. Maybe it's youth...I don't know. But even in here...you, Danny, still feel the need to defend yourself when you express love for the other guys here.

Strange, isn't it? We're so uncomfortable accepting that which we all crave so badly...the love and acceptance of our fellow man.

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