The "retired husband" phenomenum

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This has to go in the "I never thought I'd see" file

I quit playing EQ a couple months ago, and now my wife is complaining
about that.

Seems she thinks I was less bored, was less in danger of getting
depressed (mind you I haven't been depressed since quitting, but I did
have some bouts with it before I started playing regularly), and had
more friends when I was playing.

It seems my claims, which fell on deaf ears for years, that the people I
was playing with were real humans, just because they happened to be
located across the country or across the ocean from me, finally sunk in.

I guess, too, that this is similar to the complaint wives have about
husbands who retire, and hang out around the house being annoying
because they haven't got anything to do.

I'm not sure I want to do anything about this really, I'm enjoying my
vacation from MMOGing... but perhaps there's something to what she's
saying. The best part of not playing MMOG's, though, is the ability to
walk away from the computer any time with a moment's notice; if I'm
hanging out on usenet I can walk away mid sentence, if I'm playing a
single player game there's a pause button. In EQ, I had to worry about
where I was and what was going on, had to finish any fight I was in and
get to a safe place to log out; if grouped, I had to worry about what
walking away would do to the other people (who I've already said are,
after all, real people behind their toons) in my group.

Something that worked decently for me in EQ1 was to play a character who
could solo, and to solo when there was a chance I might want to "walk
away" (kids awake, waiting on business call, so on) and group when I
could be reasonably sure I would be online for a couple hours.

I really think I've tired of EQ1, though, even with the possibility of
starting over with a new toon on a new server. I leveled up to the
point where I didn't care to level any further enough times that the
lure of leveling up is sort of lost on me, and it was leveling up that I
enjoyed most!

What does that leave, in terms of the other MMOG's out there now? I
think I'll start a thread on that and leave this one for the oddity of
being asked to start playing -something- again!

Lance
 
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"Lance Berg" <emporer@dejazzd.com> wrote in message
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> This has to go in the "I never thought I'd see" file
>
> I quit playing EQ a couple months ago, and now my wife is complaining
> about that.
>
> Seems she thinks I was less bored, was less in danger of getting
> depressed (mind you I haven't been depressed since quitting, but I did
> have some bouts with it before I started playing regularly), and had
> more friends when I was playing.
>
> It seems my claims, which fell on deaf ears for years, that the people I
> was playing with were real humans, just because they happened to be
> located across the country or across the ocean from me, finally sunk in.
>
> I guess, too, that this is similar to the complaint wives have about
> husbands who retire, and hang out around the house being annoying
> because they haven't got anything to do.

It's nice to see this go the other way once in a while....now if you can
only find a game that you'll enjoy ;)
 
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Lance Berg <emporer@dejazzd.com> wrote in
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> This has to go in the "I never thought I'd see" file
>
> I quit playing EQ a couple months ago, and now my wife is complaining
> about that.

A first :)

> I really think I've tired of EQ1, though, even with the possibility of
> starting over with a new toon on a new server. I leveled up to the
> point where I didn't care to level any further enough times that the
> lure of leveling up is sort of lost on me, and it was leveling up that
> I enjoyed most!
>
> What does that leave, in terms of the other MMOG's out there now? I
> think I'll start a thread on that and leave this one for the oddity of
> being asked to start playing -something- again!
>
> Lance

Well, I can say with confidence that WoW won't hold you very long -
leveling is vastly faster than EQ1. It's not a problem for me because
I haven't actually played the game in weeks (I'm weird enough to get
as much enjoyment out of coding a major UI mod as I am actually playing
the game.) and I firmly believe that, by the time I do level my
characters up to 60, get good gear (light raiding I hope) then hero
classes will be in.

But it does sound like it would be a problem for you.

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Arch Convoker Mairelon Snapbang
Feral Lord Bosra Snowclaw
Lanys T'vyl (Retired)

Mairelon, 11th Paladin
Silverhand

My WoW Mods: http://therealorang.com
 
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"Lance Berg" <emporer@dejazzd.com> wrote in message
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> This has to go in the "I never thought I'd see" file
>
> I quit playing EQ a couple months ago, and now my wife is complaining
> about that.
>
> Seems she thinks I was less bored, was less in danger of getting
> depressed (mind you I haven't been depressed since quitting, but I did
> have some bouts with it before I started playing regularly), and had
> more friends when I was playing.
>
> It seems my claims, which fell on deaf ears for years, that the people I
> was playing with were real humans, just because they happened to be
> located across the country or across the ocean from me, finally sunk in.
>
> I guess, too, that this is similar to the complaint wives have about
> husbands who retire, and hang out around the house being annoying
> because they haven't got anything to do.
>
> I'm not sure I want to do anything about this really, I'm enjoying my
> vacation from MMOGing... but perhaps there's something to what she's
> saying. The best part of not playing MMOG's, though, is the ability to
> walk away from the computer any time with a moment's notice; if I'm
> hanging out on usenet I can walk away mid sentence, if I'm playing a
> single player game there's a pause button. In EQ, I had to worry about
> where I was and what was going on, had to finish any fight I was in and
> get to a safe place to log out; if grouped, I had to worry about what
> walking away would do to the other people (who I've already said are,
> after all, real people behind their toons) in my group.
>
> Something that worked decently for me in EQ1 was to play a character who
> could solo, and to solo when there was a chance I might want to "walk
> away" (kids awake, waiting on business call, so on) and group when I
> could be reasonably sure I would be online for a couple hours.
>
> I really think I've tired of EQ1, though, even with the possibility of
> starting over with a new toon on a new server. I leveled up to the
> point where I didn't care to level any further enough times that the
> lure of leveling up is sort of lost on me, and it was leveling up that I
> enjoyed most!
>
> What does that leave, in terms of the other MMOG's out there now? I
> think I'll start a thread on that and leave this one for the oddity of
> being asked to start playing -something- again!
>
> Lance

For the same reason I usually solo, I work all hours and am on-line at all
times no pattern so regular grouping is very hard. Not only is it work, wife
kids and dogs there is the damn phone and doorbell )

At mo I am not even in a guild - though a good one should be understanding
of irregular hours and sudden afks.

ATB
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On Wed, 15 Dec 2004 16:58:58 -0500, Lance Berg <emporer@dejazzd.com>
wrote:

>What does that leave, in terms of the other MMOG's out there now? I
>think I'll start a thread on that and leave this one for the oddity of
>being asked to start playing -something- again!

Anarchy Online is now free to play, for about a year, and I am
downloading the patches for it now, actually. A Science-Fiction
MMORPG will be a change from killing orcs and such, anyway :)

A friend of mine is trying to get me interested in Knight Online, a
Korean game that has become gradually more popular in the West -
that's free, too. Not tried it yet though, although I will do so in
the next day or two.



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"Palindrome" <damon-nomad@@@tiscali.co.uk@@@> wrote in message
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> A friend of mine is trying to get me interested in Knight Online, a
> Korean game that has become gradually more popular in the West -
> that's free, too. Not tried it yet though, although I will do so in
> the next day or two.
>

It WAS free. Now they only have one free server and they're supposed to be
wiping it every two weeks. Don't know if they do though, but they're trying
a subscription system.
 
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On Sat, 18 Dec 2004 08:23:34 GMT, "Kasar" <kasar@hotmail.com> wrote:

>"Palindrome" <damon-nomad@@@tiscali.co.uk@@@> wrote in message
>news:62k3s09l73emqoqdlhkv8m5p31orh75ihl@4ax.com...
>> A friend of mine is trying to get me interested in Knight Online, a
>> Korean game that has become gradually more popular in the West -
>> that's free, too. Not tried it yet though, although I will do so in
>> the next day or two.
>>
>
>It WAS free. Now they only have one free server and they're supposed to be
>wiping it every two weeks. Don't know if they do though, but they're trying
>a subscription system.

Aww, that's a shame :( He's enthusing about it, but I haven't had a
go yet as it would take me a day or so to download the client (I have
slow adsl).

Luckily, I had Anarchy Online on a magazine CD which saved a big chunk
of time downloading that, although I still had about 6 hours of
patches to catch up. I must say, it is an interesting game, but quite
complex... well, to me, anyway :D



Palindrome