Death in the family

My cousin died last night. 24 years old with a 4-year-old son.

<b><font color=purple>51% Angel, 49% Bitch...DON'T push it!</font color=purple></b>

oh wait.. its NOT april... why did he die?

<font color=orange><b>"x: who... the bald guy?
y: ssshhhhh!!! he might hear you
x: its ok, i'm sure he knows he's bald"

Scammy! [/arse]

Sorry to hear that Emma. That's a damn shame. *HUGS* to the family from Scotland!

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i actually really did think its april, but either way, people die. yeah its a sad thing and all, but we all die sooner or later. and... um... don't think i've had no death in the family. i have, lots too, but oh fuking well. the way i look at it is we only want that person for our selfish selves. whats so great about this word eh? NOTHING.. THEY ARE the winners, the dead ones that is.

<font color=orange><b>"x: who... the bald guy?
y: ssshhhhh!!! he might hear you
x: its ok, i'm sure he knows he's bald"

That is a bit harsh scammie. I don't know what's happened to you lately. My cousin had a 4-year-old son who is now left without a mother or father. The father left my cousin while she was pregnant and now the mother is dead.

<b><font color=purple>51% Angel, 49% Bitch...DON'T push it!</font color=purple></b>

I didn't think it was harsh. But i do think you are a pussy.

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Svol heeft een reusachtige worst

I am not a pussy, i WANT pusyy, but lets leave that out of this thread.

see how it works? i'm the guy that won't kill anything, yet i seem harsh?!?!? whats wrong with this picture man?

<font color=orange><b>"x: who... the bald guy?
y: ssshhhhh!!! he might hear you
x: its ok, i'm sure he knows he's bald"

My deepest condolensces. Amazing at this age, to die... And I feel so damn bad for the kid, who may not be THAT conscious to realize what happened. What his future will be like without ANY parent. Bastard father he has.

What happened?

It's when you know you got close ones you care about and they could die any minute, that you realize you better make the most out of your time. Don't take 'em for granted, go see them and enjoy it. I try that as much with my grandparents.

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Scamtron, i believe i can speak for everyone here when i say this:




"S.T.F.U."


Mel: mi sorry to hear that. that poor child

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That really really sux. I too have suffered the loss of very close relatives. I have since adopted the attitude that I am thankful for the time, albeit short, that I was able to spend with my loved ones who have died in an untimely fashion. I try to remember all of the good times and try not to think about the bad. In your situation I would tell you to give some of yourself to ensure that your 4 year old cousin grows up to be an honorable, decent human being. When he's old enough tell him all about his mother. Tell him all about the good times you had with her.

Okay, brain. You don't like me, and I don't like you, but let's get through this thing and then I can continue killing you with beer. -- Homer Simpson.

Part of death's effect on people and the recovering phases, includes the first sad moments and mourning. You are just SICK if you have someone die in front of you, that's from your family and say: " "sigh", oh well, life moves on".

I believe you thought it was a while since it happened, but Emma's gotten this shock only a day or two ago, and THAT is nothing to sneeze at. Maybe you didn't get such shock yet in your family, but I totally understand hers. She is still at a primary and "healthy/normal" stage of post-death news. Let her be, understand her. A few days later, she will see it your way unless she HAS a problem dealing with it.

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While you have your own life analogy, you understand others don't, which is good.

I also believe in life after death, but that means jack to US who still live HERE. We liked those people! We wanted to enjoy more. THAT is what we mourn. A few days later, we could say "Actually, they will finally live forever, or come back in another human's body
", which is better than right at the start.

As for emotional, can't speak for you, but from what I seen, you might be understating yourself. You're quite the kind that misses old times and like to return to that. Perhaps it's not as emotional with family, but with friends like us, you seem to share your feelings and you DO attach, don't deny SCAM!

PS: You ain't no sicko . Shoulda explained more about your belief instead!

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The boy right now is who is truly affecting me above all. 4-year old without any future is a problem, if no one tries to take care of him.

BTW Scam did mention the boy is now the priority.

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dood, in all honesty, between you and i, i'm pretty sure i'd do more for that boy than you if we were given the chance to. i'm always donating to charities that help with such things and i plan on adopting a child. if the wife agrees, i plan on having one of my own and adopting another.

the thing here is that i can't do anything for that boy so there is no point in showing how much i care. it does no good. actions are good, talk is nothing.

i don't really care about the feelings of anyone, but the little boy. i thought that was clear tho. eden saw it at least.

<font color=orange><b>"x: who... the bald guy?
y: ssshhhhh!!! he might hear you
x: its ok, i'm sure he knows he's bald"

I'm really sorry to hear that Emma. My thoughts are with your family, and to the 4 year old child in particular. What will happen to the kid now?

<font color=blue>"When you participate in sporting events, it's not whether you win or lose: it's how drunk you get." - Homer Simpson.</font color=blue>

Well we are a little concerned about the child. He is with friends of the family who have had him the last few months because my cousin has had drug problems. If he is able to stay with them he will be fine but the father MIGHT get first preference. The father left my cousin when she was pregnant and he has not had ANYTHING to do with the child. We will be devestated if he gets the child.

At this point, we think it was a drug overdose but we wont know for sure until the ortopsy is done. My auntie and uncle are taking it really bad because the last words they had with her were telling her how much she had disappointed them by getting involved with drugs and not taking any responsibility for her son.

<b><font color=purple>51% Angel, 49% Bitch...DON'T push it!</font color=purple></b>

yeah, i know how it feels to watch someone die as you are holding them. knowing how much pain my ____ had gone through added to the whole thing, but when he said "do with your life as you dream it" as his last word to me was even more painful. he could have been here right now if the doctors DID their JOB.

what has been done is done, but to the very last second where you still have hope, the pain is with you. and a very strong pain that is. once its over, then its done. thats all there is to it.


*i use "you", but i'm really talking about my self here*

<font color=orange><b>"x: who... the bald guy?
y: ssshhhhh!!! he might hear you
x: its ok, i'm sure he knows he's bald"

I consider u spoke for me

Well! thanks for the advice.
Now I see where you got all ur inteligence.

may be everyone is an idiot one time or the other. but only few people can manage to be an idiot all the time. Hope u r not one of those.

My deep condolences. It's really shocking to see close relatives dying at such a young age.

I'm curious like everyone to know the reason of death.

What will happen to the boy?

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Yes.

<font color=blue>Practice safe sex, go screw yourself. </font color=blue><font color=red><b><i>JayKay</font color=red></b></i>

Is that really so? Do u think I am so blinded and not even see what he was talking about? Do u really think all the sad incidents in ones life give him/her or even me and you a right to be sarcastic or funny when someone's in grief? That's the worst thing u can do. Opinions never hurt but sarcasm does. One more thing is that it was my response to his first reply not to what he wrote later.

I really hate to argue and love to drop this discussion here and u may feel free to think any which way u want.

I think you could all take your ethical discussion somewhere else. It's in the poorest taste.

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Scammy was just being Scammy. Most people in here know what he's like and accept it (not that he's deranged or anything), but I still don't see why you had to rag on him. Even if you were commenting on his first post, which you should have made clear in the first place, if you read the rest of his posts he talks about the subject and his beliefs in depth.

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