Is anybody else tired of the "The Hung & Breathless" BS that's seems to be happening on this forum?????? I've never seen this forum lower than it is right now... A moderator, qoop, & a bunch of other dogs following her around.... I see that most here, don't have a life & won't...
DH, I thought better of you than I have seen lately......
Woof woof, Dogs? Just some people having a laugh. What is wrong with you? I hope the sledding seasons arrival chills you out a bit. DH has always been one for a laugh taking on the responsibility of mod doesn't mean he has to change, the exact opposite is required of a decent and fair mod.
Nothing worng with me Man... If i wanted to watch a soap opera, I'd turn on the TV...... Forum is frigged up... If you don't see that... well, [shrug]
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I dont know what to say, RC. I dont know, in fact, if I understand what you are saying.
Let me have a look around at the forum topics to understand a bit better. But surely its no big deal if all concerned are having a good time with one another, surely, right?
Are you doing alright there, Chief? [/sincerely]
Sorry RC, but it's only been a handfull of us chatting during the day and it's been pretty funny taking the piss out of everyone and messing around. The other topics have been limited lately. I'm a moderator but this section is free to do what it wants as long as there's no hatred or bigotry as far as I'm concerned. If you're having an issue about people sidetracking a thread with it then just say so. People are generally good enough to try and get things back on track for a while.
I'm fine BB... This isn't the way it used to be, but is since the New ForumZ it seem to be alright....
Hey, if you like it, have at it.... I've got a life besides here... Maybe others don't ...... Who knows....
I think thats a great response. Truly, I do.
There you go RC. Mate, its no biggy. Things will bounce back.
I remember some time ago you told me that the forum, particularly down here, has an 'ebb and flow'. Well, at the moment, lets just say it was ebbing for a bit.
I could go along with that, but this is different....
Ok mate. I'm going to need your help on this one. I have not been around too much in the last couple of days and I hate to misunderstand people.
Its that bloody Tomsmart again, isnt it?
The bastard Liverpoolian just cant keep his grubby little hands of a piece of ass?
RC, I mean this with the greatest of respect. I think you are just being an ar[b][/b]se tonight. Your response in Riches thread about his Christmas build is most uncharacteristic of you and only confirms to me you are pissed at something.
Yea, I'm pissed!!!! You've got people acting little school kids since this new foum started.... I want it to get real around here again!!!!!!! This is BS & you knnow it....
I respect you & I'm not going to throw down on you, but you know yourself that things have gone over the edge here lately.........
Hey man, I would rather you get pissed off and let us know than not say anything so it's cool by me.
I just hope you don't take the over the top humor too seriously. You don't take Wingy's humor too seriously so maybe we could get some slack as well.
| Quote : If you're having an issue about people sidetracking a thread with it then just say so. |
A thread! It's every damn thread on the forum. I noticed when I made the comment the middle of one of these about the bitch in heat and the pack of dogs around her everybody ignored it and it didn't get one comment!
Hell you can cut the crap in here with a knife. There's a total attitude of one better than you on the forum. It use to be that even though you might take some good natured ribbing we would always help each other.
Used to be even if people got P. O'd at each other it was usually over a silly political debate in the next time they met each other in a different thread you would never have known.
It's all that's on the forum now.... Is this the way you want it?
I gotta be honest here. I had no idea anyone was pissed off. From my point of view almost everyone has been jumping in from Pat, Riser, Auburn, Rob, Tom, Pickxx, Me, Wingy, Bombed, Qoop etc. It's really tough to tell if others are upset when 10 people or more are jumping in on it all the time. It was just honest fun. I don't think anyone intended to upset others.
I was just having a good time. It's been dead at work and the forum has made my day go by fast.
I haven't had a problem seperating the two. I posted in my PSU thread, got responses, replied, etc.
However, if it's bothering you guys then I'm sure we can stop running through every thread like we've been doing.
Well, from the people I've been talking to, there's more than myself having issues with what's going on.....
You said yourself the other day that we need to attract new people... I've seen this forum go dead most of the weekend now, & the weekend used to be the the big days around here..... What's going on here during the week is supposed to attract new people????
The other section is in it's own category. As far as the rest of the forum yesterday was the busiest day yet.
I made the Dog observation early on and figured everyone got the message but because I was being a bit of a sarcastic bastard they weren't commenting to sort of give me some slack (which I gladly accepted).
But this is only part of it. There is a split in the camp where everything is changing here on the "other". The argue and still be friends part of the forum seems to be deteriorating badly.
I see now.
Well, I'm definitely at fault on this one, RC. Almost all of my posts are brazen shite-faced comments about porking, boozing, and.... well... those two topics in particular.
I'll lay off on that shite for a while. I think I tried to get Qoop into the virtual sack about 10 times and God only knows I played up when she was posting like a demon.
I'm happy to chat about other things. Things will bounce back. Its the 'silly' season, or so they say, eh?
It sure isn't case here though, is it?????
It's not in two camps unless you guys have made one.
At any rate, what do you want ME to do? Like I said, there are so many people guilty of it here that I struggle to feel like it's my fault. You can't possibly have expected me to moderate this or you would have PM'd me by now. I haven't gotten a single PM about this and we've been at it for over a week now.
I have to say that you can't elliminate this type of humor. It's very obvious that a lot of people are having a good time with it. So at best I would say that it can be limited by not being in every thread.
I also think you guys shouldn't take it so personally. I didn't mean anything by it and I doubt anyone else did either.
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The forum has basically been non-stop all day long. There have been probably 10 people posting in it. I would like more but I can hardly call it dead. People missing are scamtron, eden, wusy, and mozz (sort of).
| Quote : The argue and still be friends part of the forum seems to be deteriorating badly. |
I don't think anyone has fell out in any thread for a good while. Correct me if I'm wrong. I also don't think anyone has been arguing. Taking the piss yes, but arguing, no. I Have been taking the piss quit a lot lately and will continue to do so. I see the point about it running over too many threads, but lets face it no one is going to die. This is not a personal attack on you or your comments, I would just like to know why you think people are falling out.
It feels like we have a forum mother that needs to approve of all the going on, on every forum... You were never on as much as you have been since you've become moderator..... You have a comment for every thread like it needs your approval....
Dude, that's such bullshit. What are you on about? Come on now....you're reaching....
Don't play that game with me Man... I've known you too long....
Reaching, you wish......
I gotta hear it from more people then. How have I been mothering and trying to approve of everything on every forum? LOL. Posting a lot does not mean the same thing and almost all my posts have been in the other section lately.
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Yeah, I gotta' say RC, I dont think I see your point on this one.
DH may be posting a little more but I have not seen him mothering any sections etc.
Do you mean the other section is being 'dominated'? Is that what we're talking about?
Sorry mate, I'm just not getting it yet.
Read the rest of the community..... Check it out... I get around....
So do I. I gotta know what you're talking about.
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You being a moderator doesn't bother me . I think the only person that could have made me mad getting the moderator position would have been Wusy. Moderators don't matter to me. I can't see myself doing anything that would be a banable offense and if I did having a moderate probably would not change What ever I did anyway .
I am not blaming you personally for anything that's going on here. I don't think any one person can do anything about it. What I would love to see personally though is exactly what you suggested about not spreading all of this teresterone induced foolishniss through every stinking thread on the forum.
The rest of the stuff here about the one bettering than you thing is probably the result of inmature people vying for a precedent of importance that doesn't really exist anyway.
Do a search on your post for the last weeks.... If you can't see it there, you'll never see it......
I have 3000 posts in the last few weeks
You can't possibly expect me to find one post! ROFL!
I've posted in 150 threads just in the last 2 weeks!!!!! And that's just in the other section!
You know what DH, there's 2 other moderators around here.... Jake_Barnes & webdog.... How much have we seen them in posts?????? How many threads have we seen them pop up in.... How many nasty polls have we seen them post?????
I'd be ashamed to post a poll like you did.... You ought to moderate yourself!!!!! [shrug]
RC, I'm not religious. I'm wasn't raised in a prude family. I am very very open about sex. So that poll doesn't really phase me. It was more for shock value than anything. Over 20 people voted. We've had worse.
Me posting a lot doesn't have anything to do with me being a moderator. I posted a lot before too. Thus the 30,000 posts. My previous job had 11 hour shifts and about 8 of them were dead. My job now is slow with the holidays coming up.
The only two camps I see here are.
1 people whinging about nothing when they should know better
2 people people pandering to them out of respect when they should be saying STFU it's only a forum.
Me, my position should by now have been made perfectly clear. I love you all but you are all being silly. I'm off to watch a move and hopefully fall asleep.
Night night each and all and remember to kiss and make up when you're done.
Well DH, if you've got nothing to hide, tell Mozz that you release from his promise he made to you... What do you have to hide over that?????
DH wasn't the one who said anything about a split camp.
I DID. .....So if you have something to say to me then direct it to me or STFU!
I'm one of those that had fun this week in these forum during the day. I was home, I had no work because it is a quiet period. Today, it was cold outside and I had nothing really usefull to do outside. So, while working at my computer, I had great time with DH and qoop. Maybe we should have started a new thread, something like: "If you have nothig useless to say, but want to kill some time, jump in". But anyway, the day went fast. Then some other jumped in, some quit.
There is one thing that anybody should understand. Nobody is forced to click on a link. You do it, you live with. I was sorting my pictures. I posted about help for an app. I now got it, so should we delete that thread to prevent it from being hijacked with some dark humor? I don't think so. If it has too, let it be.
This afternoon, me, dh and qoop said thing about each other that I hope they havnt took personnaly. I did not take any offences from dh or qoop bitching at me.
I don't take offence from your post too. You have freedom of thought and speech, just as anyone here. This is a public forum. And by no means I expect it to be serious. Not that it cannot be, because it was sometime. But for now, I don't have anything serious to tell.. I'm going to work tomorrow. I won't be posting all day long. Maybe I will come up tomorrow night with some interesting stories to tell. Maybe I will just be gooffing aroung and start messing with the other in a messed thread. Maybe nothing will catch my attention and keep me here..
Night Night.......
Think what you want, I don't care, but this seems like a bit of lashing out. I'm bored at the moment, though, so I'll write. "Most here don't have a life and won't"? What, for posting here? You're here as much as anybody, so I guess you had some other reasoning for that, although I can't imagine what.
Doesn't seem that much different around here to me, but could just be me, although it doesn't appear that way, based on other responses. As far as I go, hey, I'll tell ya the last two months have been crazier and crazier by the day at work. Freakin nuts lately, and I'm really looking forward to a few days off and a stress relief weekend. So I've been having fun cutting up with the other folks here in good humor when I really can't with the jackasses I work with. Just one form of a vent, is all.
And if you've been talking with others that much, who don't like it (apparently in PMs or e-mails, I'm guessing), maybe it would be beneficial to mention it in a milder manner earlier, instead of keeping it behind the scenes so much and letting it get pent up until you have to let fly like this thread.
Honestly, you're the one that was talking about earning respect in another thread. But to go off here and accuse "most" of not having a life the way you did, just generalizing and throwing it out there, without having the guts to say who or a real reason why that would stand up to much, doesn't really earn you much respect, either.
Don't mean any offense by any means with any of this, just calling it like I see it. Myself, (and sue me or say what you want if I'm way off) I think maybe you just tipped back a good few today and let fly too quick in a way that you wouldn't have otherwise if you'd slept on it or something.
Seriously, though, if you and whichever folks have really been that bothered for so long, say something milder and earlier, without accusing "most" folks here of not having a life any more than you, because there's really no apparent basis for a comment like that.
But whatever....
As a relatively new member here I apologise to you and Russ if I've caused much in the way of discontentment. I mean that sincerely.
Tom noticed that I might be trying to pander up to you guys but in truth, I'm just trying my best to be a decent person over this and I dont mind Tom saying that at all.
I'm glad you guys are talking about it though.
I just want to say publicly that I think DH is a top moderator as is JB and I dont know WebDog so I hope he wont mind me not leaning one way or another. The fact that WD has not come down here censoring left, right and centre speaks volumes of the man as a being a reasonable, good-natured person.
Pat responded candidly and thats cool.
Aub's Tiger side came out in him and its great to the see the Southern but honest gentleman come to the fore.
RC and Russ: you're top blokes and I consider you both mates of mine. Its hard in a virtual world to put that across but I think you're both great fellas. I have to say though, I talk an enormous amount of shite about porking and boozing and as distasteful as it is I dont think I can change too much. I did what you asked RC and read some of the threads that DH, Q, Pat, Wings, Tom etc. were involved in and while I understand them to be a trifle 'out there' I honestly cant say that I wouldnt have been doing the same thing if it had been me having a berserker of a good time, talking about sex, etc. Crikeys, I get boozed and do it all the time. LOL.
I cant say much else except that I'm sorry that you guys are upset.
Auburn, I am sorry if the get a life comment was out of line.....
Yes, I've had a few Coors tonight.... That doesn't negate some things that have been said & needed to be said for awhile..... There's some people out here that have been hurt... Should I just stand by & tolerate it????
I don't have the way with words you have, but I try & express myself..... If I see wrong, I'll comment on it, which I did.... If it didn't sound PC, sorry, but I can't help feeling, there's a problem around here....
Aww, we love your writin', bomber. Cracks me up plenty, especially when you've gotten into grandpa's cough medicine a bit.
Ya strike me as a good goofy drunk, not temperamental one, and that's always good shite.
*Cough*... I dont drink that much ...*Cough*
Mate, I must say, I'm a happy drunk when bombed. Thank the Gods too because I'd be in jail otherwise.
Talking about beer. In the name of the 'Christmas Spirit' and given that I'm off work until mid jan next year combined with the fact that its 2pm here I might just crack a Stella and enjoy responsibly a few beers 8)
...*Oh Fock, there's only a sixer in the fridge... where's the car keys and wallet?*...
Not saying anybody should stand by and tolerate it if it really bothers em. In any situation. But, as suggestion, maybe next time a "Hey guys" thread just coolly asking folks "Can we chill out with the gross stuff a little? It's getting pretty heavy, buds!" would work a little better. Doing all the discussing behind the scenes, apparently for a good bit, from the sound of it, and then starting something where you have to use generalization comments like that never starts things off well.
If something really bothers ya around here, by all means, say something. I'm all for that. We usually govern ourselves pretty well. But at least be cool about it at first. If that doesn't work after a couple of tries, then maybe amp it up, sure.
Rock on, bro. Got me a little selection to take outta town tomorrow, including some Abita Turbo Dog. YUM!. Been tempted to bust into it tonight, but I'm saving myself. Aww, isn't that sweeeeeet?
You're a stronger man than I.
...*Salivates at the idea of beer chilling undrunk in Aub's fridge*...
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