Sorry guys, i really appreciate all the help here. Please continue. I updated my profile to my current setup. I will list everything i have set so far that I have changed or may need to be changed.
BIOS Options:
AGP aperature: 256mb, the reason i had it set that way, was that for some reason BF2 just seemed a bit smoother with it at 256 instead of 128, and YES I have the True 6800 GT OC 256mb(AGP) from BFG, not the regular 6800 NU 128mb.
Vcore:1.475or1.5 when at 2.5ghz, currently running 1.45@2.417ghz(No BSOD's).
RamVoltage:2.8
FastWrites: OFF
NO shadow or caching options enabled
T1 command rate(as my ram is rated for 2.8v, T1, 3-4-3-8 at PC4000 speeds)
CPU Voltage Adjust = default
FSB=200MHz
HT4x at 2.4ghz, but 3x at 2.5 cause it doesn't like to go 1mhz past 1000 or i get hard locks in games, but it makes no measureable performance difference.
My 12v rail is reading 12.10v in BIOS, 3.3v at 3.23, 5v at 5.12v. I can adjust the voltages more on my PS, as i have the OCZ Powe Stream 520w with 33 A on 12v rail. Its 520 watt continuous, no peak, peak is 600. Its a good powersupply. I'm running my graphics card on the one of the filtered lines. My HD is a Seagate Baracuda 7200.9 SATA2 with NCQ, which is not being utilized as my mobo is only SATA 1, but its supposed to backwards compatible. I JUST bought it, i originally got it for my A8V system(9800Pro, 4x512mb Corsair PC3200 XMS LowLatency, 3200 winnie), but that drive would not be detected by BIOS, so i removed my 120 gig from this comp and swapped the drives since this drive worked in this comp.
here is my mobo
http://us.dfi.com.tw/Product/xx_product_spec_details_r_us.jsp?PRODUCT_ID=3160&CATEGORY_TYPE=LP&SITE=NA
My BIOS SHOULD be up to date, i updated it once since i had the board, but that was around christmas time, and my BIOS build date reads 2005/07/11, which is the date of the newest BIOS releas on the site. All the PCI IRQ's are default, if i remmeber correctly my graphics card is IRQ16, shoud i change it to something else? My CMOS Realtime Clock thingy is IRQ8 if i recall. And last of all Cool'n Quiete is OFF.