Although a little more difficult to find, you can find a 4 pin CPU fan for your CPU. The fourth lead is for PWM control (Pulsed Width Modulation).
As a matter of fact, if you are looking for a replacement CPU fan and a CPU cooler, then the Zalman 9500AT has everything you are looking for ........ including the 4 pin fan lead.
Before someone jumps all over me, I am not trying to push a 9500AT on you. It just happens to have a 4 pin fan lead and does a good job of cooling very quietly.